Comments for Sunganani http://www.sunganani.com ...because in marriage, together is better Fri, 21 Nov 2008 15:26:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 Comment on Why The “Extra” in Marital Affairs Isn’t Needed by Pat http://www.sunganani.com/why-the-extra-in-marital-affairs-isnt-needed/#comment-25 Pat Mon, 22 Sep 2008 10:48:11 +0000 http://www.sunganani.com/why-the-extra-in-marital-affairs-isnt-needed/#comment-25 this is great. i think you should compile these series into a book. Be blessed and continue to be blessing. this is great. i think you should compile these series into a book. Be blessed and continue to be blessing.

]]> Comment on Having An Extra-Marital Affair? by Elizabeth Mwafongo http://www.sunganani.com/having-an-extra-marital-affair/#comment-24 Elizabeth Mwafongo Fri, 12 Sep 2008 09:50:28 +0000 http://www.sunganani.com/having-an-extra-marital-affair/#comment-24 well said-----Mayi Deacon. This is a real problem in most of our so called *clean and christian* marriages. To say the truth...this doesnot leave any of us clean. God help us not to fall in such a trap! well said—–Mayi Deacon. This is a real problem in most of our so called *clean and christian* marriages. To say the truth…this doesnot leave any of us clean. God help us not to fall in such a trap!

]]> Comment on Having An Extra-Marital Affair? by Mai Deacon http://www.sunganani.com/having-an-extra-marital-affair/#comment-23 Mai Deacon Wed, 10 Sep 2008 12:46:09 +0000 http://www.sunganani.com/having-an-extra-marital-affair/#comment-23 Well i also think that most of the times people think of an affair as being sexual. But i also believe it also involves those sms, chats and dirty e-mails we dont feel achamed to send to those that we are suppoesed to keep a distance from. Lunches, and the closeness one would know their partner would not want to hear of. And honestly this is a reall big issue more so in the christian circles where such issues are not discussed at length because the assumption is we are all clean. Well i also think that most of the times people think of an affair as being sexual. But i also believe it also involves those sms, chats and dirty e-mails we dont feel achamed to send to those that we are suppoesed to keep a distance from. Lunches, and the closeness one would know their partner would not want to hear of. And honestly this is a reall big issue more so in the christian circles where such issues are not discussed at length because the assumption is we are all clean.

]]> Comment on How To Choose When It’s Grey by Jackie http://www.sunganani.com/how-to-choose-when-its-grey/#comment-22 Jackie Tue, 26 Aug 2008 06:38:46 +0000 http://www.sunganani.com/how-to-choose-when-its-grey/#comment-22 "I think we live in a way where we want to look "cool" or act "cool" and still be called a Christian. We tend to justify our actions by personalizing our faith - Well its okay for me to wear this or be at the party or do that because "my Jesus" is ok with it; better yet I don't feel convicted in any way with what I am doing. The scripture you quoted is just right on the mark. We don't have to do things because it is permissible. Just because everyone is doing it doesn't mean I have to do the same thing. Jesus says we are in the world but not of the world. So lets not allow the world to dictate our way of living as Christians. Its the reverse the world ought to follow us. " “I think we live in a way where we want to look “cool” or act “cool” and still be called a Christian. We tend to justify our actions by personalizing our faith - Well its okay for me to wear this or be at the party or do that because “my Jesus” is ok with it; better yet I don’t feel convicted in any way with what I am doing.

The scripture you quoted is just right on the mark. We don’t have to do things because it is permissible. Just because everyone is doing it doesn’t mean I have to do the same thing.
Jesus says we are in the world but not of the world. So lets not allow the world to dictate our way of living as Christians. Its the reverse the world ought to follow us.
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]]> Comment on Bloody Maryz and Jumping Josephs by Yoon Ho Um http://www.sunganani.com/bloody-maryz-and-jumping-josephs/#comment-21 Yoon Ho Um Wed, 06 Aug 2008 18:30:40 +0000 http://www.sunganani.com/?p=43#comment-21 Hi Sunga, I don't recall ever really hearing any sermons about Joseph. It's usually something like "we don't know what happened to Joseph when Jesus started His Ministry or even when He was in His teens... he may have died sometime after..." The last we really know of Joseph is when he and Mary went searching for the 12 years old Jesus and found Him @ The Synagogue... It could be that he was a bit older than Mary(the whole cultural thing) and by the time Jesus was about to embark on His Ministry Joseph would have already passed on... again, we don't really know... God obviously knew what He was doing when He chose Mary AND Joseph. I never did really think about him being a role model but he is definitely a great one to look to. Joseph must have been an awesome example of a Godly father to Jesus. Now “I do as I have seen my Father do” adds a whole new perspective for us to think about and hopefully all us men can be an example like Joseph was as Our Father's to those around us. Thanks for sharing what Wisdom Chitedze wrote with us Sunga. God Bless, Yoon P.S. It's very interesting that I would come across your post today(just joined eblogtemplates, saw your comment & clicked the link to this blog)... this morning I was watching 100 Huntley Street(crossroads.ca) on TV(I'm in Canada) and they mentioned Bloody Mary... the drink has nothing to do with Jesus' mom BUT is in fact a reference to Mary, Queen of England & Ireland who persecuted and had Protestants burned at the stake. Hi Sunga,

I don’t recall ever really hearing any sermons about Joseph. It’s usually something like “we don’t know what happened to Joseph when Jesus started His Ministry or even when He was in His teens… he may have died sometime after…” The last we really know of Joseph is when he and Mary went searching for the 12 years old Jesus and found Him @ The Synagogue…

It could be that he was a bit older than Mary(the whole cultural thing) and by the time Jesus was about to embark on His Ministry Joseph would have already passed on… again, we don’t really know…

God obviously knew what He was doing when He chose Mary AND Joseph. I never did really think about him being a role model but he is definitely a great one to look to. Joseph must have been an awesome example of a Godly father to Jesus. Now “I do as I have seen my Father do” adds a whole new perspective for us to think about and hopefully all us men can be an example like Joseph was as Our Father’s to those around us.

Thanks for sharing what Wisdom Chitedze wrote with us Sunga.

God Bless,
Yoon

P.S. It’s very interesting that I would come across your post today(just joined eblogtemplates, saw your comment & clicked the link to this blog)… this morning I was watching 100 Huntley Street(crossroads.ca) on TV(I’m in Canada) and they mentioned Bloody Mary… the drink has nothing to do with Jesus’ mom BUT is in fact a reference to Mary, Queen of England & Ireland who persecuted and had Protestants burned at the stake.

]]> Comment on On the Pictures Going Around In Malawi’s Cyberspace by Pat http://www.sunganani.com/on-the-pictures-going-around-in-malawis-cyberspace/#comment-20 Pat Tue, 29 Jul 2008 10:18:08 +0000 http://www.sunganani.com/on-the-pictures-going-around-in-malawis-cyberspace/#comment-20 this is a very sad development. it show how immorality has reached in malawi. the fact that some of the people 'looking' for these pictures are christians saddens me. worse still what will their excommunication do to their spiritual lives? this is my concern as well. this is a very sad development. it show how immorality has reached in malawi.
the fact that some of the people ‘looking’ for these pictures are christians saddens me.

worse still what will their excommunication do to their spiritual lives? this is my concern as well.

]]> Comment on Your Marriage Type by Steve http://www.sunganani.com/your-marriage-type/#comment-19 Steve Tue, 29 Jul 2008 09:09:29 +0000 http://www.sunganani.com/?p=38#comment-19 Sunga, Great article, Sir. Keep 'Em coming! Yes, Chikosa, you are sounding too radical these days, but I love it! Steve Sunga,

Great article, Sir. Keep ‘Em coming!

Yes, Chikosa, you are sounding too radical these days, but I love it!

Steve

]]> Comment on Spiderman’s Legacy by Maggie Manda http://www.sunganani.com/spidermans-legacy/#comment-18 Maggie Manda Mon, 21 Jul 2008 13:11:06 +0000 http://www.sunganani.com/?p=40#comment-18 it seems to me that these day the kids have alot more power over the parents than the other way round.It is easier for the parents to give in to their kids demands because they are so busy with other things like work and other projects.Alot of parents here and in debt all because they buy thier kids what ever they want to make up for the time they don't spend with them.The peer pressure is also very high so even if the parents say no ,the kids find other means of geeting what they want. it seems to me that these day the kids have alot more power over the parents than the other way round.It is easier for the parents to give in to their kids demands because they are so busy with other things like work and other projects.Alot of parents here and in debt all because they buy thier kids what ever they want to make up for the time they don’t spend with them.The peer pressure is also very high so even if the parents say no ,the kids find other means of geeting what they want.

]]> Comment on Your Marriage Type by Pat http://www.sunganani.com/your-marriage-type/#comment-17 Pat Fri, 04 Jul 2008 14:59:43 +0000 http://www.sunganani.com/?p=38#comment-17 i cannot agree more with chikosa. since married-in-waiting i believe these tips would help me in prep. of marriage. be blessed i cannot agree more with chikosa. since married-in-waiting i believe these tips would help me in prep. of marriage.

be blessed

]]> Comment on Your Marriage Type by Sunga http://www.sunganani.com/your-marriage-type/#comment-16 Sunga Fri, 04 Jul 2008 08:53:14 +0000 http://www.sunganani.com/?p=38#comment-16 Chikosa said: Sunga the points raised in your blog are very interesting. Of course you do not take the risk of giving your voice to it. But my view is that marriage is a covenant. I think the bible is clear on that: "Because the Lord has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant." (Malachi 2:14) These prenuptial agreements have become necessary because we have departed from the truth. May be this article can shed more light on the matter: http://www.family.org/marriage/A000001012.cfm In short marriage is a sacred trust and must not be handled flippantly. Or am I sounding too radical these days? Chikosa said:
Sunga the points raised in your blog are very interesting. Of course you do not take the risk of giving your voice to it. But my view is that marriage is a covenant. I think the bible is clear on that:

“Because the Lord has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant.” (Malachi 2:14)

These prenuptial agreements have become necessary because we have departed from the truth. May be this article can shed more light on the matter:

http://www.family.org/marriage/A000001012.cfm

In short marriage is a sacred trust and must not be handled flippantly. Or am I sounding too radical these days?

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